To an Elf the idea of respect is created in there likes and there dislikes as to how other people act.
In this Respect is created out of a willingness to Except the Differences in each elf's beliefs.
In an elfin life style Respect is earned and Never Given Away ...
You have to prove your self worthy of respect -
and this can become a chore when your lying about what you say you believe in.
And when it is found out that you are lying. you lose the trust you where after in the idea of respect.
When dealing with sex, Respect becomes very important because each elf believes that sex is a game that two or more play to feel good about who they just had sex with. Where love is an emotion that one person has for some one that the other person may not Share for them.
So in this when the idea of what i like is not what you like.We ask what is respect.
Who do we give it to and why.
And we answer these questions by knowing what we are willing to put up with in others beliefs as it relates to what we like because of are personal belief system. This that we put up with, creates the idea behind the word Respect.
Lets look at it like this.. Because sex is a game that two or more people play to feel good about who they just had sex with. Jealousy is then an act of hatred against the one you say you love, and or having sex with. In the fact you do not want them to experiences there own likes or dislikes. by this - If they fell in love with some one other than you, or would have had a sexual encounter of some kind that they enjoyed. Your idea of them loving only you would be threatened by the deed now done. and fear would set in, that they might now leave you for the other. and you might even think that it is for the best that the other never see this other person again. But all these things you are going through . Is only in your head, your way of seeing what they did and you then try to control the out come. This control the out come idea, is your selfishness in control of what you think of as the self. The I know what I want and that was not it. Leads to hate and the point of non-trust between you and your mate or sexual other. En destroys the Respect you shared together.